As I was driving down the road this morning, on my way to school,
I started to think about how I have ended up where I am at now in my life
journey. A lot of thoughts were spinning around in my head. I was a pretty good
student in high school, I didn't do extraordinarily well and I did not extraordinarily
fail. lol. I managed to make mostly A's and B's, had about a 3.8 GPA. Not too
shabby right? This June it will be 6 years since I graduated, to many that may
seem like just yesterday, but to me it seems like ages ago. I think mostly
because of the turn of events in my life.
High school was a
fun time for me. I enjoyed going to school and I enjoyed the social aspects of
school. I did JROTC in high school, which is probably the only reason I succeeded
as well as I did. We had the best field trips in JROTC as well. Sgt Maj Hartsel
was a big influence in my life, and still is. I still go in to update him on my
life and to let him know when I have accomplished set goals. He is always
advising me in life, finances, and everything else.
Let’s start with
the first major setback in my life. I really wanted to go to Longwood
University after graduation, so I applied and went for a tour to try to get
early acceptance. Well, the woman was impressed with my application and really
wanted to accept me, but I hadn't taken Algebra 2. Ughhhh. My guidance
counselor had informed me the year before that Algebra 2 was not a required
course, and that most colleges were not looking for that. Well needless to say,
I pretty much gave up and started exploring more options.
I read and
researched about Liberty University, went to a weekend session there and
thought it would be a good fit for me. I felt like it was my only option. Oh
and did I mention that at the time I wanted to be an elementary school teacher.
Wow how time and life changes so much in such a short time. I remember being
dropped off at college, at first I couldn't wait for my parents to leave, and
as soon as they left I wanted them to come back. I got very homesick, and did
not enjoy my first semester away from home as much as I hoped that I would. I
decided that after that semester, I would return home and take classes at the
community college. So second set back, my not so great experience going away to
college.
Once I got home
and situated, I had to decide what I was going to do, so I decided to sign up
for classes at the community college. At this point in my life, almost a year
after graduation, I was unsure of what I wanted to be when I "grow
up". I just felt like I was going through the motions of life, taking
classes, but not really progressing. That summer, I decided to take Summer
classes, and at that point I starting thinking about becoming a nurse. That Summer
was also when I meet Riley's "donor" as I tend to call him. (We will
get to that story later, I have to build up the suspense right?!?!?!) At this
point I feel like it was a monumental turning point in my life, and at the time
it was not a good turning point. All of my actions that Summer and Fall,
dictated how my life has ended right here today. While I feel like I am in a
much better place now and would NEVER change anything that has happened in my
life, it is just not the way I "thought" my life would be at this
point in my life.
Stay tuned for
more of my life story.....basically.
Becky,
ReplyDeleteThank you SO much for sharing this. I consider you someone that I "grew-up" with, and it's SO nice to have a look at what happened in your life as we both moved on. I really look forward to more of this!
-Adena